Anya’s Insights On Parenting & Play Therapy
“To understand is hard. Once one understands, action is easy.”
Play Therapy vs Counselling for Children: What’s the Difference?
Children do not process emotional experience the same way adults do. This article explores the difference between Play Therapy and traditional counselling for children, why many children communicate distress through behaviour rather than words, and how Play Therapy supports emotional regulation, anxiety, trauma, and relational healing through safety, play, and connection.
Anxiety in Children Doesn’t Always Look Like Worry
Anxiety in children does not always look like worry. Sometimes it looks like emotional outbursts, school refusal, perfectionism, clinginess, shutdown, or sudden overwhelm over seemingly small things. This article explores how anxiety shows up in children, why it often resists language, and how Play Therapy helps children process fear and emotional overwhelm through safety, relationship, and play.
Why Behaviour Is Communication
Children rarely communicate emotional overwhelm directly. Instead, anxiety, shutdown, aggression, clinginess, or meltdowns often become the nervous system’s way of expressing what words cannot yet hold.
Why Some Children Need Everything Their Way
Some children struggle deeply when routines change, plans shift, or things don’t happen exactly as expected. This article explores why rigidity and the need for control are often connected to anxiety, overwhelm, and nervous system regulation - not simply difficult behaviour.
When Your Child Says “I Don't Know” to Everything
Some children express overwhelm loudly. Others go quiet. This article explores why children emotionally shut down, avoid talking about feelings, and repeatedly say “I don’t know” - and how emotional safety, connection, and Play Therapy can help.
Why Your Child Melts Down After School
Many children seem completely fine at school and then fall apart at home over something small. This article explores after-school meltdowns, emotional overwhelm, nervous system overload, and why children often unravel most deeply in the places they feel safest.
Why Your Child Explodes Over Small Things
A child melting down over the “wrong spoon” is rarely reacting only to the spoon itself. This article explores emotional overwhelm, nervous system stress, after-school meltdowns, and how Play Therapy can help children express and regulate big feelings.